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Process Hypnosis
When prospective clients call for information,
I often tell them a proverb: "Give a man a fish, you feed
him once. Teach him how to fish, you feed him for a lifetime."
(For female clients, "Give a woman a fish, you feed her once.
Teach her how to fish, you feed her for a lifetime."). After
telling clients the fishing metaphor, I add, "My goal is to
teach you how to fish." Usually this statement is an attention
grabber.
Underlying the fishing metaphor is symbolism
and indirect suggestions. Learning to fish is the same as
learning a "process." Above the water symbolizes the conscious
mind, below, the unconscious. The metaphor evokes imagery
of the hook and line breaking through the surface of water.
Similarly, while fishing for new thought, new behavior or
a new way of life, the conscious mind must penetrate the surface
of the unconscious.
If teaching a man/woman to fish is a process,
then the fish is a "product" of the process. The words "give
a man/woman a fish" evoke a sensation of eating, or indirectly
suggest that the conscious mind keeps stuffing unpleasant
thoughts into the unconscious. This is another reason why
prefer to be taught how to fish rather than being given a
fish.
The metaphor also exemplifies the difference
between product hypnosis and process hypnosis. Process hypnosis
has several advantages over product hypnosis: In process hypnosis
there is a continuous search for better inductions, post-hypnotic
suggestions and metaphors. Fishermen always have some type
of new fishing lure, line or location to test. Process hypnosis
applies in general to the subject of hypnosis. The history
of hypnosis, from Franz Mesmer to Richard Bandler and John
Grindler, proves hypnosis to be an on-going process. Process
hypnosis necessarily implies succeeding generations of better
hypnotherapists and techniques.
Process hypnosis also applies to each therapeutic
treatment in specific. Each successful hypnotherapy intervention
is evidence that both the hypnotherapist and the client go
through a process of living and learning. Hypnosis fails for
no other reason than the abandonment of the process. If one
technique doesn't work, move on to another. If seven different
techniques don't work, then try an eighth.
Setbacks and temporary stoppages of progress
are part of the hypnosis process. There is a difference between
a setback and failure. A setback means progress temporarily
stops. A failure is the abandonment of the process. A setback
may leave a person feeling angry or frustrated, but there
is still hope. A failure leaves a person feeling empty, void
and with no hope of success. As long as a person believes
in the process, there is still a chance.
According to the tenets of process hypnosis,
no one will have the last say on hypnosis, not even the great
Milton H. Erickson. Process hypnotherapists will never become
bored or stagnant because they keep searching for a better
method. Erickson said it's not the fault of the client if
he can't be hypnotized; it is the responsibility of the hypnotist
to find a method that will work. Inductions fail, Erickson
said, because hypnotists don't pay enough attention to their
subjects. Erickson was a champion because he was ultimately
aware of his process and his clients at all times.
Other schools of thought have previously
focused on the process. There is "process philosophy," which
emphasizes the course of becoming instead of being, and there
is "process psychology," a clinical application of process
philosophy. Process philosophy and psychology paved the way
for the human potential movement. Though we have not consciously
called what we do "process hypnosis," nonetheless, unconsciously
we have been living it.

Time-Line TherapyTM Lessons
The greatest benefits of time-line therapy
are the releasing of negative emotions and the lessons that
go along with each catharsis. A client will release anger,
fear, sadness, guilt and any other negative emotion if he
is being guided by a competent time-line therapist. It is
important to note that the client's release of negative emotions
is contingent upon learning lessons.
Time-line therapy is chiefly a permissive
technique. The client chooses the events on his time-line,
the client chooses which negative emotions to release and
the client chooses the lessons that he is to learn. The key
words in the last sentence are "the client chooses." Empowering
the client with choice follows the Ericksonian tradition.
As Erickson so eloquently puts it, "An incubator supplies
a favorable environment for the hatching of eggs, but the
actual hatching derives from the development of life processes
within the egg." The time-line therapist is the incubator
who provides the favorable environment; the client is the
one who cracks open his problem.
Time-line therapy has built-in safeguards.
Time-line therapists are trained to make sure that the client
starts releasing negative emotions going back to the very
first event related to the problem. Time-line therapists check
and recheck, insuring negative emotions have been cleared.
When necessary, time-line therapists insist that the client
chunk up to avoid superficial lessons. Time-line therapists
future pace to verify that the client will be able to apply
his lessons in the future.
The importance of the client's lessons should
not be understated. Once the client feels his negative emotions,
he moves on to his lessons. After the client discovers what
his lessons are, he once again feels around for negative emotions.
Most of the time, the client is able to release all the negative
feelings from one event in one try. Occasionally, some negative
emotions remain, so the client returns to his classroom for
more lessons. If the client is successful in his second attempt,
then all the negative emotions have been released; if not,
the hypnotherapist and the client repeat the "process" until
all the negative feelings have been purged. The client uses
his lessons as a cloth to wipe his negative emotions clean.
During time-line therapy, the client learns
lessons that are valuable for his future. For this reason,
time-line therapy is about teaching a client how to fish instead
of just feeding him a fish. Because lessons are such a valuable
part of time-line therapy, I wondered if we could instill
a client's lessons with something other than future pacing?
Enter Milton Erickson.
Erickson's Double and Triple Binds
Erickson first learned the art of the double
bind from his father. Erickson's father would frequently ask,
"Do you want to feed the chickens first or the hogs, and then
do you want to fill the wood box or pump the water for the
cows first." Erickson's father gave him a choice of which
chore to do first; however, Erickson was not free to leave
the chores undone. Erickson admitted that he consented to
do the chores primarily because he chose the order in which
he did them.
The secret of the double bind is that it
provides an illusion of a free choice between two possibilities.
Sometimes a client desires neither of the two choices, though
both are to his benefit. Some examples of double binds: "Are
you going to buy the outfit you want before or after you lose
twenty pounds?" "Will you stop smoking before or after you
get over your resentment?" "Will your spouse be the first
person to notice how you changed or will it be your best friend?"
In all three double bind examples there is a choice between
two possibilities. There is a choice between buying an outfit
before or after losing twenty pounds, there is a choice between
quitting smoking before or after resolving resentment, and
there is a choice between who recognizes the change first.
What isn't left to choice is losing twenty pounds, quitting
smoking and changing.

Here are some more of Erickson's effective
double and triple binds:
Would you like to experience a light,
medium or deep trance?
Would you like to go into a trance now or later?
Would you like to go into a trance standing up or sitting
down?
Which of you would like to be the first in your group to experience
a trance?
Do you want your eyes opened or closed when you experience
your trance?
On one level, the double and triple binds
give the client a choice of when or how to go into a trance.
On another level the client unconsciously consents to enter
into a trance. Erickson's double and triple binds are also
classic examples of two-level communication, communication
that speaks to both the conscious and unconscious minds at
the same time. "Would you like to experience a light, medium
or deep trance is a triple bind because the client is given
three choices. In the next section, we'll examine when to
apply double and triple binds to time-line therapy lessons.
Applying Double Binds to Time-Line
TherapyTM
Erickson was fond of trying new techniques
on unsuspecting subjects. Because his work was so subtle,
Erickson's subjects didn't know when he failed. Erickson called
his method "natural field experiments." I tried some natural
field experiments in my clinical practice. I applied double
and triple binds in the course of time-line therapy. My clients'
verbal responses, facial gestures, skin color and body posture
indicated that the double and triple binds were effective.
The body cues indicated the double and triple binds were instrumental
in helping the client release negative emotions.
Here is a sample of some of my double
and triple binds:
Will you apply your lesson of __________
daily, weekly or monthly?
Will you apply your lesson of __________ consciously or unconsciously?
Will you apply your lesson of __________ automatically or
will you have to remember to do it?
Will your lesson of ____________ help you more with your past,
your present or your future?
Who will your lesson of ____________ help you most with? Your
spouse, parents or co-workers?
Who will notice that you learned your lesson of _________
the most? Your spouse, your parents or your friends?
Can you apply your lesson of ___________ once, twice or numerous
times?
Will your lesson of ____________ help you more at work or
at home?
Will your lesson of __________ lead to one, two or several
other lessons?
Will you need to review your lesson of _________ one time,
five times or not at all?
You can put your client's lesson in the
above blanks. For example, suppose a client's negative emotion
is anger and his lesson is forgiveness. You can ask a question
that places his forgiveness in a double or triple bind. "Will
you apply your lesson of forgiveness daily, weekly or monthly?"
If the client says daily, then you can add yet another triple
bind. "Will you apply your lessons of forgiveness one time,
two times or five times a day." You can also triple bind weekly
and monthly lessons: "Will you apply your lesson of forgiveness
one day, two days or three days a week? Will you apply your
lesson of forgiveness three days, six days or nine days a
month?"
Double and triple binds are an effective
way to use two-level communication during the course of time-line
therapy. In two-level communication, the conscious mind gets
a choice, the unconscious mind does not. In the forgiveness
triple bind, the client's conscious mind is allowed to choose
how often to apply the lesson of forgiveness; however, the
unconscious mind has agreed to forgive as soon as the conscious
mind makes it's choice of how often.
Conclusion
Double and triple binds work well with time-line
therapy for three reasons: 1. Double and triple binds are
a permissive technique at the conscious level. The client
is always given a choice in every double or triple bind. 2.
Double and triple binds enable time-line therapy to remain
a "content-free therapy." Double and triple binds require
one- or two-word answers. Therefore, the client responds to
double and triple binds without going into any specific content.
3. Double and triple binds enable time-line therapy to remain
"brief." In my experience double and triple binds may actually
shorten time-line therapy because the client unconsciously
processes his lessons and releases negative emotions more
quickly.
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